Again, I'm lucky that someone who says "Happy Birthday" to me. It may not be a big deal for them to say happy birthday to me, but it is a big deal to me. And I learned, as I know, that communication is really, really important for human relationships. I don't mean that communicaiton has to be formal. Just greetings work."Hi, Duck!," "Happy Birthday, Duck!," this kind of simple stuff makes people happy. Now, I respect Michel Foucault, though his writing is terribly difficult for me to understand.